Today the topic at hand is the law of attraction or the belief that we attract things into our lives based on the energy we put off and what we focus on. I came across this quote not too long ago and it really struck me. “Your vibe attracts your tribe.” In other words, we attract what we are.
If you are not happy with the circumstances of your life, chances are, you have some work to do on yourself. If you want better people in your life, become better. If you want people in your life who are fun, successful, dependable, positive, and uplifting, you get to work on becoming that yourself first.
You are the average of the 5 people you hang out with most so choose your friends based on where you want to go and who you want to be in life and then start working on becoming that person. Cut toxic people and relationships out of your life even if that means staying home alone on a Friday night. Having people to pass the time with is not worth the toll it takes on your personal growth and success. Choose activities that are in line with your goals and meet people doing that activity because odds are they have the same goals as you. If you’re trying to get healthy, go to a group workout class or healthy cooking class and make friends there. If you’re trying to get better at managing your money, go to a seminar on the topic and make friends there.
Make the decision to improve yourself and start working on the areas you want to change and you will start attracting people that make you a better person. Always stay learning, growing, changing, and asking for feedback from others on where you can improve. Read books on personal growth, go to seminars, take career development courses… Work harder on yourself than anything else and the rest will fall into place.