Couples Learn Blog
An Expert Guide to Healing from Trauma
Even though it’s only five letters, trauma is a very big word. That’s because there are many different types of trauma that you can experience and the effects of trauma can last a lifetime. Trauma is something that can occur regardless of your gender, age, race,...
Navigating Different Values in A Relationship
Between contentious political elections, a global pandemic, major Supreme Court decisions and evolving social justice issues…there’s a lot to disagree on these days. If the last few years have brought to light different values in a relationship, you’re not alone. It’s...
The Real Reasons (That Nobody Tells You) About Why Therapists Don’t Accept Insurance
Deciding to start therapy is a huge milestone in life. After all, what could be more important than committing to work on yourself? But does your therapist accept your insurance? Here’s why you should no longer look for one that does!
10 Tips for Mind Blowing Sex
At some point or another, the topic of sex always (ahem) comes up when I work with couples. It’s common to discuss better sex tips for couples in my sessions. Sex is a very important part of a healthy relationship and when it isn’t working right for both partners,...
Want A Healthy Relationship? Learn To Dump Your Assumptions!
As a couple’s therapist, one of the things that always amazes me is how two different people can experience the same situation in completely unrelated ways. It’s one of the reasons assumptions in relationships can be so damaging. When I ask a couple to tell me about...
Shared or Separate Finances: Which is Healthier For Your Relationship?
If there’s one thing that I’ve learned in my work with couples, it’s that each couple is incredibly unique. What works for one couple may not work for others. Furthermore, what works for a couple at one time, may have an expiration date. This is often the case when it...